quick lit – next page, please {january 2016}


For those who are new to the blog, and we have quite a number of new readers (Yay!), every Friday, I like to post Friday’s “Secret” to enjoying life. But today, Friday’s “Secret” is being preempted by this month’s Quick Lit post. I am thrilled, once again, to be linking up with Anne Bogel of Modern Mrs. Darcy to share what I have been reading this month.

Last month was a little sparce. The only books that I completed were the books that I was reading to Buddy Man. Thank you for the suggestions of new story board books for him. Please keep those suggestions coming.

Like last year, I have set a reading goal for 2016. I would like to read 36 books this year, which amounts to 3 books a month or 1 book every 10 days. This, I believe, is doable for me; especially if I can stay off Netflix and Amazon Prime!

I am also participating in the Modern Mrs. Darcy’s 2016 Reading Challenge. There are some very cool categories this year; I am particularly excited about “a book you previously abandoned” and “a book you own but have never read”. You can check out her other categories here.

Read:

  • The Round House by Louise Erdrich: So, last month, I really didn’t have many good things to say about this one. It wasn’t one that I picked for myself; it was a book club selection. However, I must say, that my mood about it has changed and it was a very fine book: insightful, thought-provoking, and on a subject matter, the effects of a sexual crime on a family, particularly, the Native American community, that I previously knew nothing about. When I first started the book, I really liked Erdrich choice of words but as I continued, it became harder to follow. I have figured out why. Erdrich does not apply the use of quotation marks so it was very difficult for me to determine when someone was speaking. That was very annoying to me. Yet, as I continued to read, I began to follow the rhythm a lot better and in the end, I am happy that I read this book and was exposed to Louise Erdrich as an author! I especially enjoyed this turn of phrase: “The thought came again, more insistent, and this time I let it in and reviewed it. I thought this idea through to its conclusion. I stood back from my thought. I watched myself think. The end of thinking occurred.”
  • The Little Paris Bookshop by Nina George: A book about everything to do with books, one of my favorite type of books, this one was written wonderfully. I like to write down thought provoking quotes and beautiful phrases/sentences and this one had so many that it would be impossible to write them all here. So I will have to pick one of my favorites: “Love requires so much courage and so little expectation.”
  • 10% Happier: How I Tamed the Voice in My Head, Reduced Stress Without Losing My Edge and Found Self-Help that Actually Works – A True Story by Dan Harris: I was pleasantly surprised at how open and forthcoming Harris was in this memoir. I picked up the book for two reasons: one, in large part, due to a review by Modern Mrs. Darcy and two, the fact that title was very intriguing to me because the voice in my head is always going non-stop as well. In the book, Harris’ discusses his journey into finding and beginning a mindfulness/meditation practice. While his journalistic background was evident (he used a lot of words I know and love but rarely use in every day life but wish that I did) Harris was authentic and humorous! I read this book on the way to our annual family vacation at the beach while riding in the car with my extended family and laughed out loud so many times my dad kept asking me what was so funny. Definitely a contender for my personal Book of the Year! A quote I need to remember: “Make the present moment your friend rather than your enemy. Because many people [including me] live habitually as if the present moment were an obstacle that they need to overcome in order to get to the next moment.”

Currently Reading:

 Paused Reading:

  • Daring Greatly by Brené Brown: Paused this one in December. Will pick back up at some point this year! Still enjoying lighter fare this month.

 As always, don’t forget to stop by the Quick Lit link-up over at Modern Mrs. Darcy and check out other great book recommendations. I am on Goodreads and would love more friends, and again, please keep those story board book recommendations coming for a 15-month-old.

enjoy life…

Happy New Year!

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Happy New Year!

“…if one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life he has imagined, he will meet success unexpected in common hours.”

– Henry David Thoreau, Walden

“When a woman becomes her own best friend life is easier!”

– Diane Van Furstenberg

“When you’re stuck, pour on the major self-compassion.”

– Danielle LaPorte #truthbomb

Ever since I began the process of becoming intentional about my life, my New Year has shifted. It is no longer something that I dread – the tortured reminder of everything that I wanted to get done and didn’t (posting weekly in 2015, for example) – but the excited anticipation of what is to come (posting weekly in 2016, ha!)

I am choosing to look forward, to not dwell longingly in the past with tears of lamentation – I am not joking here; I have done this! You can ask my Hubby.

In 2016, I have goals! Mercy, do I have goals: running a half marathon is one that may beg reconsideration. However, for me, my goals will not be my focus. I am choosing to focus on continuing the process of becoming my own best friend and living the life that I’ve imagined. And when, not if, I get stuck, pouring on major self-compassion.

I wish the same for you!

Happy New Year!

friday’s “secret”: create your best, of the year {2015 edition}

I cannot believe that the year is pretty much over! Two more weeks and I will be telling you “Happy New Year!” As Gretchen Rubin has so eloquently stated, “The days are long but the years are short” and seem to get shorter and shorter with each passing year!

One fun thing to do at the end of the year is to look back over it and think about my highlights: what I did that was fun and memorable. I have had a great year and there is so much I could write about. But this is my “best, of the year” list, so only the best here.

Quote of the Year: Honor the space between no longer and not yet! – Nancy Levin

Pic. Better Than BeforeBook of the Year: So many books, it is so hard to pick just one. But here goes: Better Than Before by Gretchen Rubin – finding the Four Tendency Framework and discovering that I am an Obliger has literally changed my life and how I go about accomplishing things that I want to do. It is now available in a paperback edition here.

Race of the Year: I only entered two races this year so not many to chose from but between the two: The 12th Annual Liz Hurley Run and the 2015 Galaxy of Lights 5K, I would have to chose the Galaxy of Lights. At that race, I ran in spite of fear and anytime I do something in spite of fear it is one of my highlights!

The Wynn Las VegasMeal of the Year: A foodie like me cannot not tell you about the best food of the year; so many options here. But I will have to go with breakfast at the Wynn Buffet in Las Vegas. This is where my hubby and I held our wedding brunch almost 10 years ago and every time I get to eat there is an awesome thing. Another thing that I loved about this meal was that I didn’t pig out, even though I wanted to. A moral victory for me!

Blog of the Year: I’m sorry but I can’t pick just one so this category will have two blogs of the year. One is Modern Mrs. Darcy which I have mentioned over and over again. The second one is The Geeky Shopaholic which I have discovered just recently. I love her content.

Podcast of the Year: I devoured everything Elizabeth Gilbert this year. Her podcast Magic Lessons was the impetus that caused me to continue to put my work out into the world, regardless of my fear. Based on her book, Big Magic (see how I edged another book in there?) one of the things that will always stick with me is that fear will always be present, in my car, as I travel on this journey of life. The only thing is, he is not allowed to dictate my destination or to control the radio under any circumstances.

Trip of the Year: Even though I went to the beach three times and a family reunion in Vegas, my best travel experience was my sister’s wedding in St. Augustine, Florida! The entire weekend was full: full of joy, full of excitement, full of family and friends, full of fun. Over all, that will always take the cake.

Movie of the Year: So many of my favorite franchises released movies this year: Marvel, The Fast and the Furious, etc. But the winner in this category, and I really can’t believe I am saying this, is Disney-Pixar’s Inside Out. It was awesome!

Like Mother, Like SonInstagram of the Year: “Like mother, like son!” Slowly, ever so slowly adjusting to being a new mom was a huge part of this year and having a child is scary. One of the scariest things about it is seeing yourself in your child’s face and in his personality. I dare you to tell me, which one is the Buddy Man.

Many thanks to Paula of the Geeky Shopaholic for the idea for this post. I hope you enjoyed reading it as much as I enjoyed writing it.

enjoy life…