“A classic is a book that has never finished saying what it has to say.” – Italo Calvino
Do you know any books like that?
til tomorrow, enjoy life
“A classic is a book that has never finished saying what it has to say.” – Italo Calvino
Do you know any books like that?
til tomorrow, enjoy life
Today’s “secret” comes in answer to a reader’s question: “For a person who isn’t a ‘reader’, what would be your suggestion on how and with what to begin?” In addition, this reader likes pictures and does not necessarily like fiction. Thank you for the question.
If you want to try to read more, or really do anything at all, the beginning always lies in where you are at the moment. From last week’s “secret”, we learned that we are all readers because we all read. So, let’s start with what you are already reading and combine that with the interests of your life.
I’ll give you an example: I mentioned that I read “The Happiness Project” in 2011. In that book, Gretchen discusses time management strategies and references Laura Vanderkam’s work. She’s the author of I Know How She Does It, which I discussed earlier this week. I read that. I also read her other two books on time management because I enjoyed the first one so much. She then discussed the work of Daniel Pink, who had a podcast that I listened to briefly. He mentioned the work of Susan Cain, who wrote the life changing book Quiet, which of course I read. And it continues on and on.
You can see how I followed a string down the rabbit hole and have read many books by following my interests and making note of works referenced.
Amazon is an awesome research as well. If you are looking at a title that you have read and liked, note what Amazon recommends that is similar. Then try one that interests you. If you don’t like it (I recommend giving it at least 50 pages), discard it and move on to the next one. “Life is too short to read bad books,” says Anne Bogel.
The trick is keep reading. There is something out there for everyone.
til tomorrow, enjoy life
P.S. As to our reader’s specific caveat with fiction, there are tons and tons of biographies and memoirs that include pictures of specific instances in the story tellers’ life. Also, Barnes & Noble have glorious books with photographs on different topics: states of the country, other countries, particular individuals, etc. What piques your interest? Go and learn more about it. Let me know how it works out!
Catch up on the rest of this series.

Like Belle in the song “Belle” of the Disney classic, Beauty and the Beast who is at the very least partially oblivious to what is going on around her because she has her nose stuck in a book, am I missing out on my real life in the joy of my effort to read as many books as I possibly can? I have often wondered about that.
The benefits of reading are well-documented: staving off dementia and Alzheimer’s, expansion of one’s vocabulary (this has been a problem when I go to speak a word that I have never heard pronounced; I know what it means, I just don’t know how to say it. It’s made for some hilarious moments), improved focus and concentration, the list goes on without even discussing the knowledge and insights that one gains while reading. But how much is too much?
After tracking my time, per Laura Vanderkam’s recommendation, I discovered that I was wasting much more time letting Netflix know that I was “still watching” after hours on end and playing Candy Crush (does anyone still play that?) on my phone than I ever will reading. And that was good enough for me.
I believe we were all born with a unique thing that we tend to enjoy. My mom loves jigsaw puzzles. But if the needs of daily life are being met, I now believe, that I can find the time to do the thing that I love, if I intentionally chose to do THAT thing, as oppose to wasting time doing that things that are just meh. I’m looking at you, Netflix.
What’s your thing to do that you love?
til tomorrow, enjoy life
P.S. I have always wondered whether a part of Belle’s motivation in marrying the Prince was all the books in that gorgeous library. It had to be part of her considerations, don’t you think? It would have been part of my mine. LOL